Let’s encourage each other in love towards good deeds-Hebrews 10:24

While solitary times is good for times of sober reflections and may add depth to who we are, we are not created to live in perpetual isolation. We now live in a world that has shrunken into a global village with many having thousands of friends on social media that they may never get to meet in person all through their lives. Many live in loneliness and are isolated lacking real human connection, the much-needed human interaction that contributes to the overall well-being of an individual and are losing their minds. So why are many including some believers in Christ living a life of Isolation? Why is it dangerous to live an isolated life? There is strength in numbers! We are most weak and vulnerable when we isolate ourselves because life is meant to be shared with others. We need each other-Proverbs 27:17

The main strategy of the enemy of our soul who is on a mission to destroy is to make people believe and rationalize why they are better off alone especially if they have been hurt and let down by those they trust. For the believer in Christ, there is sometimes an ingrained thinking that they are strong in faith and do not need to fellowship and grow with others. There will always be seemingly legitimate reasons not to invest emotionally in connecting with others but therein lies the danger! As we connect with others we may be hurt, misunderstood and disagree but the benefits we enjoy spiritually, psychologically and socially far outweighs the reasons why we may choose to completely shut people out of our lives. and live in isolation. There is someone out there who needs to benefit from your unique giftings, be cheered by your laughter and wit. Someone needs to be encouraged by your presence. Do not believe the lies of the enemy that no one cares about you, and it does not matter whether you are in a family gathering, church or getting involved with good friends or in your local community. It is wisdom to be aware of the devices of the enemy of your soul-1 Peter 5:8

The fact is, the journey of life and faith is more meaningful and enjoyable when we are connected with others, share moments, build memories, celebrate each other and support each other in both good and bad times. We thrive as human beings when we connect with one another through our shared human experiences, interests, common emotions, deep need for God and one another. Our lives become brighter and our steps lighter when we intentionally relate with each other, nurture and safeguard our relationships. We are meant to be active not passive participants in in the journey of life and faith. We also cannot work together to advance the kingdom of God if we all isolate ourselves. Above all God takes delight in our love, unity in Christ and purpose –Philippians 2:2

Digging deeper together into God’s love and word, sharing our stories, testimonies of God’s faithfulness and miracles. and listening to other people’s stories as we travel along together can inspire others and help us to persevere till the end. So, as you journey through life and faith each day, be intentional in looking out for co-travelers in life’s journey. If you have hurt anyone, be humble and gracious to reach out to ask for forgiveness. If anyone has hurt you, extend the same grace you received from Jesus Christ and forgive today. Pray for those who hurt you! Do not wallow in the sea of self-justification or rationalization. The stakes are too high. Isolation is deadly and many lives has been destroyed and faith shipwrecked because of it.

Now is the time to extend a hand of friendship, empathy or help because it might be just what you need to make your life more purposeful. Life is simply not just about us. It is also about others and their joys and struggles. Life is a shared journey. It is not meant to be a lonely journey for there is always more to life’s purpose, faith, living and giving in Jesus Christ who gives us the abundant life to enjoy –Psalm 133, John 10:10